How can ego affect us?




I am quite sure that you must be familiar with the term ego and egoism. Well, an egoist is a person who is an advocate of egoism. A person who thinks himself or herself as the superior and believes in his or her own importance. The feeling of being yourself or considering yourself to be the uttermost important than others is called 'Ego'.
There is a thin line between ego and self-respect. When the word 'I' or 'Myself' deeply fits into your mind that's when your self-respect turns into ego. having a ego is not a problem but when someone respects you or is kind to you and you not responding with the same manner, that causes the problem. As long as the ego is in control of you you need not worry about it. But if the ego start controlling you then you need to worry about it and work on to improve yourself.
You may wonder how can this 'ego' affect you. Well, it can affect you in various ways. Not only you it can affect the one with whom you have a strong connection. Given below are some of the consequences of ego

Ruins the relationship: When any relationships end it is due to ego. There are many other factors that contribute to the ending of a relationship but ego is the major factor that ruins the relationships, be it with friends, parents or siblings.

Devalue your Success: After working very hard you achieve what you aim for but later you develop an ego then your success is useless. With ego you can't reach anywhere.

Devalue your respect: The respect that you earn from the people or what people give can be easily ruined by ego. When you believe yourself to be the most important and don't respect others Nichtachtung from others.

No mental peace: When you have ego, you will never have mental peace. An egoist is so much to himself or herself that they want to compete with others and prove themselves to be the superior. While doing this they don't care about sleeping, having fun with friends, enjoying the life. All they concerned about is being the best.

Because of the ego there are wars between countries. every country wants to be superior than the other. For this they are even ready to kill each other. Because of the there is hatred among people, among countries.

It should be the duty of each and everyone of us to stop giving more importance to ourselves. We must stop comparing ourselves with others. Always be kind to others. Be humble. If you want to be remembered for the future generation then stop being egoist. The day when the world becomes free of ego, that'll be the day humanity lives in peace

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